I don’t know if I talked about this before

but in the book I previously mentioned

about metaphors the writer talks about

writing a list everyday of things to be

thankful for. I do this on occasion and

I think the point is mainly to put yourself

in a positive state of mind. If your doing

this on a regular basis your going to be

in a better mood because you are making

yourself aware of the good things. In the

past two days two people have

commented oh the thing you said to me

awhile ago that has really helped me out

it was really meaningful and I want to

say thank you. So I say things because I

feel like oh wait this could be helpful to

someone and then I forget about it and a

lot of times it comes back to me as a

surprise thank you and that can be a

really meaningful thing. I just thought I

would share that.


Process orientated

So I was watching another video and in

that video the speaker was saying he

recommended RSD Taylor for some

practical life lessons. I guess RSD Taylor is

a pick up artist. My appeal isn’t so much

that I want to be a pick up artist just I

wanted to see what this guy was up to.

Also being a major hypn/influence fan

why wouldn’t I check it out? So I watched

a random RSD Taylor video and he said

most people are result orientated and that

makes you pathetic and creepy in the

pick up game. He was saying to enjoy the

process! I hadn’t actually realized this was

a thing. I found that I am actually a

process type person anyway so there was

no effort for me to be process orientated

because personally I already enjoy the

process. If you focus on the goal….i.e. the

girl your not going to enjoy the moment

because your focus is not on the right

thing as RSD Taylor was saying.

Personally I love when I get an

opportunity to play “The game”.

An example my mom wanted a slightly

damaged object in a store at a discount.

I declared I’ll get it to you for 50% off.

I went to the sales manager and said

mark this down 50% it’s damaged! He said

“There is no way your getting this for 50%

Off”. (I loved it! Because I knew I was

going head to head with a professional

and I was going to win this game)

I said I’ll tell you why I will get this for

50%! I said who do you think wants this

piece of crap? How are sales this week

Bob? What is your job here? Are you

leaving stuff on your shelf? Or are you

selling? So what’s it going to be Bob?

Are you selling or do you want another

disappointment? He said follow me to

the register I’ll give you 50% off! To me it

was all about the game and I loved it!

so enjoy the game!

Rick & Morty

I had sudden flash of inspiration I wanted

to share. A random person asked what is

with this Rick And Morty? Why should I

watch Rick and Morty? Without thinking I

instantly responded….The last thing this

World needs is another Morty! Ok!……

Whatever you do don’t be a Morty! I said

you need to be a Rick! Burp…..that’s all I

Gotta say! I thought it was clever and

Funny and captured the essence of the


If you haven’t watched the show some

things to know Rick And Morty are voiced

by the same guy. Morty is this unsure

unconfident kid and he often has a shaky

Voice. Rick is an alcoholic genius! He does

things seemingly without fear and

although he does screw up usually he

figures things out in a genius type of way.

So what did my instant response mean?

who are Rick and Morty? Let’s check it

Out! The last thing this world needs

is another Morty! Don’t be a Morty!

Morty is your conscious mind! It’s always

asking you stuff like should I do this or

should I do that? I don’t know! It’s the

scared shaky and fearful individual that

often acts by not acting! Because if I don’t

act at least I know I’ll be safe! And Rick is

your subconscious this fearless action

taking genius! In one episode he turned

himself into a pickle fell down a drain and

and was about to be eaten by a cave full of

Rats! He had literally got himself into a

pickle! He used his genius level of

thinking to overcome the seemingly

impossible! He killed the rats and made it

home safe and sound. He enjoyed the

challenge as a testament to his own

Greatness! so I’ll say it again whatever you

do don’t be a Morty! That’s the last thing

this world needs.


I watched a great episode of South Park

that illustrated perspective perfectly.

The episode starts with Cartmann crying

in the hall way. His friends ask him what’s

wrong? He says I will never reach my

dreams! They say sure you can reach your

dreams. What is your dream? To be a

NASCAR driver! The issue is I am neither

poor enough or dumb enough to be a

NASCAR driver. He decides to reach his

dream he must become poor and stupid!

He gives all his money away to Butters to

be poor. Then he hangs upside down

watching NASCAR in an attempt to

become stupid! While watching NASCAR

he sees a commercial vagicil may make

you have short term memory loss. He

thinks this is a great thing to further make

him stupid. He goes to the store and starts

eating vagecil. A lady sees him and says

your the stupidest kid I ever seen! he

takes this as a sign that he his ready to

achieve his goal because after all he’s

stupid and poor now. He steals a NASCAR

and wrecks the car and ends up in the

hospital. The dr said your the stupidest

kid ever! Cartman again feels very

motivated after his doctor tells him how

stupid he is.

The show is meant to be funny but I

Thought it was excellent to illustrate


Work through the pain!

I saw this video yesterday Work through the pain.

In this video a little boy let’s fear cause

him pain. In his head he thinks when I

hit this board it’s going to hurt my hand

and I am afraid.

Today a friend wrote on Facebook I rather

drink beer then get involved in a

relationship again because the beer

doesn’t hurt so much! I said watch this

video! Your going to avoid happiness

because your afraid you might get hurt?

but once the boy gets past his fear you see

he easily and without pain he breaks

through that board and find success on

the other side of that board.

So I would say don’t let the pain get in the

way of your success.

Are they crazy? Aaagh…..

Recently I came across a ad on Facebook.

Basically the ad was we can help you be

successful! Just click here and we will call

You! I don’t like to see people get taken

advantage of. Some people have a hard

Time having any kinda money! They

see some ad on Facebook and a slick

talking person with a little know how

Can easily talk them out of some big

Cash! I don’t like to see that. It’s not fair

to see someone taken advantage of like

that. So I commented the secret to success

is actually easy! I think I blogged about

it several times in one form or another.

Like Jeff Olson says in the slight edge it’s

your daily habits that make you successful

Or not. Also The miracle Morning writer

Hal Elrod! You know he talks about doing

this mourning routine and that makes you

successful. It’s the same thing! It’s a daily

Habit that brings positive results. Bob

Proctor talks about it…..he says if you

want to change your paradigm you have

to impress your affirmations onto the

subconscious mind by repeating it over

and over and over and over again. It’s

the same thing…..daily habit! I read a 100

books and they are all saying the same

thing. Anyway so I commented in the

Facebook ad here the secret is here for

free do daily positive habits that move you

toward your goal every day! this woman

saw my comment and she went on my

Page and basically liked all my public

posts and she wrote…..I need to hear you!

I guess she feels I am some sorta guru now

and I am not a guru…..I just read a lot and

I don’t like to see people get ripped off and

so I pass on information that I think is

Helpful. But anyway I don’t want anyone

fanatically obsessed with me because I

read helpful information.

Shhh be very quiet

I have found time and time again that it
Often serves me well to be quiet myself!

More times than not I have said something which I thought to be un meaningful or insignificant only to find out later that what I said causes me headaches or people use information
you tell them in nefarious ways.

I then think gee whiz! I thought I was engaging in a open discussion with a friend and as the song lyric goes "True friends stab you from the front".

It's really disappointing that you can't have nice conversations with people sometimes without them using what you tell them against you. I think I can now see the advantages of talking to a stuffed "Wilson" volleyball the conversation doesn't have to go anywhere else and I still have the opportunity to speak my mind.

So I feel I will not be telling people things
as often as I used to simply because a lot of them can't be trusted.

The Sound Of Silence

On the rare occasions that I have to be up before noon what I really appreciate is the
Sound of silence.

Far too often what I typically encounter on those occasions where I have to be up early is Mr. Obnoxious…….you know the
Type. The person who yells GOOD MORNING! When your the only person in the room and your not even looking at them.

I wish these obnoxious loud morning people would learn to have respect for
Wait for it…….The sound of Silence.

So whatever you do…..don't be that guy or
Girl who obnoxiously yells GOOD MORNING! Into a peaceful quiet room…
It's not wanted or needed…better yet respect the quietness and realize sometimes the best acknowledgement is no acknowledgement.

Learn to enjoy the wonderful sound of

The folding Chair

I went to do my dreaded laundry at the

Laundry mat. As I pulled up I was even

more disappointed. The laundry mat was

Packed to the gills. I quickly stuffed my

Clothes in several machines and then

thought how should I pass the time?

I then remembered I have a folding chair!

Nooo! I wasn't going to pull out my folding

chair right in the middle of the asphalt…

then I thought why not? I decided to do

it….I pulled out the chair sat down put in

my headphones and pulled out the book…

Then oh my god! I was actually living the

good life! The sun beat down on my

beautifully and and a gentle breeze kept

me cool! Happy music filled my ears and I

Was reading and enjoying the book too…

Wow! This is great! I really did feel like I

was on vacation and living the good life!

So I wanted to share that with you guys

and encourage you to buy your own

folding chair.

Festival dress code

I am very close to the Festival

Lollapalooza! I seen a clear example of

"Social manipulation" but I wonder how

it happens exactly? As I was stuck in

traffic because of the festival I had an

opportunity to watch the crowd. What I

noticed was thousands of young women

dressed exactly the same. Particularly

they were all wearing cut off short jeans

and most showing some skin. (To put it in

a non offensive manner)

I thought about it and there is no way that

is an accident. Obviously this massively

large crowd all dressed the same way

were massively influenced to dress that

way. Anyway if I had that answer to

massively influence a crowd to buy a

particular thing I'd be filthy rotten

Stinking rich which is very appealing

to me. Any ideas on how this massive

Crowd was so massively influenced?